We’ve all heard the f-word. For some it invites a scoff and an eye roll, for others it’s the source of anger and discomfort. But for some of us, myself included, it’s not only a fun word to throw around, it’s also a way of life.
That’s right. I whole-heartedly embrace the f-word: feminism.
Up until about a year ago, I was apprehensive to use the f-word. Well, the “feminism” word, anyway. I, like many others, had been led to believe a myriad of misconceptions about feminism and the women and men (yes, men!) who defend and abide by it.
It’s not uncommon to hear feminists written off as bra burners or angry man haters, and it’s easy to understand why people would be apprehensive to associate themselves with such a misunderstood label.
I’ve recently enrolled in a women’s studies course and dabbled a bit in the newly reinstated Idaho State University Feminist Alliance. Both of these experiences have really grounded my interest in feminism in reality and reminded me of how some of the greater ISU community (rather than my own feminist friends) react to the mention of feminism.
The most common reaction, especially amongst men, seems to be couched in the misguided fear that the “feminist agenda” is to help women take over in society and assume a position of oppressive power (wouldn’t it be awful if one gender held power in our society and everyone else was made to feel inferior? Oh, wait…).
Eye rolling and snide comments are another regular response to feminism. After identifying myself as a feminist to some people, I’ve had them refuse me common courtesies such as holding a door open as a statement about chivalry. As a woman, I’m more than happy to hold a door open for other people and can appreciate the returned gesture on the level of human decency and manners rather than an expectation because of my gender.
Unfortunately, I’ve even heard rumors that the reinstatement of the Feminist Alliance brought about rude comments on campus.
It seems as though the only way to combat these reactions is through education. I think the more people come to understand what feminism really is, the more likely they’ll be to embrace the concept and cut the sarcasm.
One of my professors has said he believes anyone with a daughter, wife, mother or sister is a feminist whether that person knows it or not. I would go so far as to extend that to anyone who has female friends, extended family members or acquaintances that they have respect for.
In my understanding, what feminism boils down to is the belief that all people, regardless of gender (and intersectionality begins to add in sexual orientation, race and countless other qualities), are equal and deserve the same opportunities.
At the end of the day, feminism isn’t just about women. Breaking down gender roles is beneficial for everyone, and it opens doors for people to be evaluated on an individual basis rather than on contrived ideas of how men and women “should be.”
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Nicole Blanchard is a junior majoring in Mass Communication.